I know when it comes to understanding people is like trying to decipher the "mysteries of the universe" lol: P There are people that once we "click" without saying a word or anything, we understand it perfectly at once, with others, not + to see them we turn to avoid crossing q no words or glances with them because they beat us, so simple!
is also true that sometimes things are beyond understanding or not, there are times when we must learn to live with our neighbors, and be tolerant because they all share the same beliefs, attitudes, opinions, ideologies, etc etc ...
to come here When I faced not only with different ways of looking at life, but philosophies, ways of being, and act very different to where I come from, why not mean I'm wrong, or that they are wrong, simply that each of us is different ... but there are differences to differences ..
For example, here's aq families expect children to have an average of 17 and 18 years for the q they leave the nest, this is the most natural world as it does not come as a shock occurs, such as failure of the family and although they do not say it, the "hold" their children at home past the age I mentioned q becomes something like a q that we have in Mexico "dead and leaning, a week stink" AUCH! : S haha \u200b\u200b
In Mexico things do not go well, and surely there are millions of reasons why q somos diferentes, quiza una y muy fuerte sean los problemas economicos que nos limitan de hacer muchas cosas... O tambien que somos mas familiares, o el problema de la seguridad, el que una chava de esa edad se independice representa un riesgo altisimo para ella, la presa tan facil que se vuelve para tanto loco q ahi alla afuera...
Una vez comentando estas diferencias con el tio de C., quien tiene una hija, le contaba yo que generalmente en Mexico, las "ninas" salimos de casa de nuestros pps, hasta el momento en que nos casamos... utttssss... que voltea, ve a su esposa y le dice: "Arghhh te imaginas a Fulana viviendo aqui con nosotros hasta que se case???? ewwww no gracias jajaja :S"... lo bueno que es su hija que sino.... 8-) :S :*(
But what I'm going with all this is that apparently the relationship between parents and children is also very different from what I knew / know in my home and I pps!
It makes about 3 months now, C. he asked a favor to his mother, a very simple please, do not need to invest more than 1 hour in, no need to go to an unknown, dangerous, distant, even more, at any time you can do, if it comes to store, the mall, a restaurant can make a little hole in his time and move to meet the favor! What's more, even has a weight q invest your bag, not + a few minutes of your time ...
C. I ask him if he wanted, and if I could do, to which she replied that "Yes", adding "I do it tomorrow" ... What surprised me most was the lack of word that has been! It would have been better to say that I wanted, I could not, would have been down, but more slouch is lie, commit, give your word and show that this is worthless! : O
The favor in question is a matter of life or death, however, if you asked your child is because it is something you need to do, and mainly for reasons of time, he can not go personally to do so, therefore appealed to the person, whom I imagine, but trust! That ugly realize that you do not have the 100 with him! (At least from my point of view so it is! And no, for me, in my mind, no excuse worth in the first place, promised, promised and I am very formally to do so, secondly, no excuse or time, or space for not having done so, it does not work, no young children, have a car Her husband lives away from home most of the week, no kitchen, your garden right now there is no trace because it's all covered with snow, his dog has left more than 1000 times alone at home, then what which has prevented him to give him 15 minutes to their child and fulfill what he promised? ... Really bothers me attitude, and irresponsibility in this regard, I do not fit on the head that if an undertaking to something not done yet, and time will continue to happen ...
I know if I ask something to my mm, which is, right now is running to do, buy, send, search, inventigandolo, etc. whatever, is moving air, sea and land, to meet what I asked, though not demanded, and even with 10000 remaining, we have always taken the lead (my sister and me) at all, has never failed us (or will do it ... I put my hands into the fire with tremendous affirmation), never has been badly let least, has been lack of words ... the word of my mm it weighs and can be trusted ... shame that not all are equal ... mms (
grinding to finish some time ago C. gave his savings mm to save a pig * haha \u200b\u200blease small q is safe at home *, now in January, you are not to know, nor I to tell, is the most difficult month of the year, charge q and the cost of the Christmas holidays and New Years, and is a month of work for very low C. : (I asked this little stash to complete the expenditure of the month ... A, as the lady says, "oops, you're borrowing the money, and right now, 'I can not pay": O: O: O * plop plop plop plop and more *: O The question is not the $ $ $ $ as such, but the way of doing things, C. had the $ $ $ $ $$$$, wool before taking at least something that is not theirs, had asked permission or informed, so that was prevented and not put in a situation so
.... Anyway, I was very disappointed that person ... surprised me the attitude, lack of speech, and above all, I was impressed that in 3 months and counting still unable to shake hands with your child in something that became engaged ... the good thing about all this, if you can make something good out of a nasty situation is that in cases like these you learn who is on your side and who is not accountable to whom, and who not, who shakes your hand when you need aid, and who turns you back ... q sadly think she is in the left column ... Not to mention ....
is also true that sometimes things are beyond understanding or not, there are times when we must learn to live with our neighbors, and be tolerant because they all share the same beliefs, attitudes, opinions, ideologies, etc etc ...
to come here When I faced not only with different ways of looking at life, but philosophies, ways of being, and act very different to where I come from, why not mean I'm wrong, or that they are wrong, simply that each of us is different ... but there are differences to differences ..
For example, here's aq families expect children to have an average of 17 and 18 years for the q they leave the nest, this is the most natural world as it does not come as a shock occurs, such as failure of the family and although they do not say it, the "hold" their children at home past the age I mentioned q becomes something like a q that we have in Mexico "dead and leaning, a week stink" AUCH! : S haha \u200b\u200b
In Mexico things do not go well, and surely there are millions of reasons why q somos diferentes, quiza una y muy fuerte sean los problemas economicos que nos limitan de hacer muchas cosas... O tambien que somos mas familiares, o el problema de la seguridad, el que una chava de esa edad se independice representa un riesgo altisimo para ella, la presa tan facil que se vuelve para tanto loco q ahi alla afuera...
Una vez comentando estas diferencias con el tio de C., quien tiene una hija, le contaba yo que generalmente en Mexico, las "ninas" salimos de casa de nuestros pps, hasta el momento en que nos casamos... utttssss... que voltea, ve a su esposa y le dice: "Arghhh te imaginas a Fulana viviendo aqui con nosotros hasta que se case???? ewwww no gracias jajaja :S"... lo bueno que es su hija que sino.... 8-) :S :*(
But what I'm going with all this is that apparently the relationship between parents and children is also very different from what I knew / know in my home and I pps!
It makes about 3 months now, C. he asked a favor to his mother, a very simple please, do not need to invest more than 1 hour in, no need to go to an unknown, dangerous, distant, even more, at any time you can do, if it comes to store, the mall, a restaurant can make a little hole in his time and move to meet the favor! What's more, even has a weight q invest your bag, not + a few minutes of your time ...
C. I ask him if he wanted, and if I could do, to which she replied that "Yes", adding "I do it tomorrow" ... What surprised me most was the lack of word that has been! It would have been better to say that I wanted, I could not, would have been down, but more slouch is lie, commit, give your word and show that this is worthless! : O
The favor in question is a matter of life or death, however, if you asked your child is because it is something you need to do, and mainly for reasons of time, he can not go personally to do so, therefore appealed to the person, whom I imagine, but trust! That ugly realize that you do not have the 100 with him! (At least from my point of view so it is! And no, for me, in my mind, no excuse worth in the first place, promised, promised and I am very formally to do so, secondly, no excuse or time, or space for not having done so, it does not work, no young children, have a car Her husband lives away from home most of the week, no kitchen, your garden right now there is no trace because it's all covered with snow, his dog has left more than 1000 times alone at home, then what which has prevented him to give him 15 minutes to their child and fulfill what he promised? ... Really bothers me attitude, and irresponsibility in this regard, I do not fit on the head that if an undertaking to something not done yet, and time will continue to happen ...
I know if I ask something to my mm, which is, right now is running to do, buy, send, search, inventigandolo, etc. whatever, is moving air, sea and land, to meet what I asked, though not demanded, and even with 10000 remaining, we have always taken the lead (my sister and me) at all, has never failed us (or will do it ... I put my hands into the fire with tremendous affirmation), never has been badly let least, has been lack of words ... the word of my mm it weighs and can be trusted ... shame that not all are equal ... mms (
grinding to finish some time ago C. gave his savings mm to save a pig * haha \u200b\u200blease small q is safe at home *, now in January, you are not to know, nor I to tell, is the most difficult month of the year, charge q and the cost of the Christmas holidays and New Years, and is a month of work for very low C. : (I asked this little stash to complete the expenditure of the month ... A, as the lady says, "oops, you're borrowing the money, and right now, 'I can not pay": O: O: O * plop plop plop plop and more *: O The question is not the $ $ $ $ as such, but the way of doing things, C. had the $ $ $ $ $$$$, wool before taking at least something that is not theirs, had asked permission or informed, so that was prevented and not put in a situation so
.... Anyway, I was very disappointed that person ... surprised me the attitude, lack of speech, and above all, I was impressed that in 3 months and counting still unable to shake hands with your child in something that became engaged ... the good thing about all this, if you can make something good out of a nasty situation is that in cases like these you learn who is on your side and who is not accountable to whom, and who not, who shakes your hand when you need aid, and who turns you back ... q sadly think she is in the left column ... Not to mention ....
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